It is true that a woman’s best friend is no longer diamonds,
but her vibrator! It wasn’t so long ago that sex toys were only found in sleazy
sex shops, but that has all changed with an estimated 65% of under 70 year olds
owning a sex toy in the UK. The subject of vibrators is no longer deemed to be
so taboo, with sex toys appearing on our television screens and accepted
amongst famous celebrities such as Katy Perry, Rhianna and Eva Longoria.
But with so many different types of vibrator, how is one
supposed to know where to begin? Well, fear not because I am here to give you a
comprehensive guide to it all.
Bullet Vibrators
Small, discreet and extremely powerful, these can be a great option for
beginners. They get their name from their shape, looking much like gun ammo.
These are normally around 2-3 inches in length and are designed for stimulating
the clitoris. Bullet vibrators should not be used inside the vagina, but are
perfect for external stimulation.
As well as being great for giving strong and
precise vibrations on the clitoris, they can also be used on the inner and
outer labia, the outer entrance to the vagina, inner thighs, nipples, neck and
nearly anywhere else you can think of! This makes this little beauty perfect
for use between couples and –unlike a real bullet – is about as non-threatening
as you can get!
Avrielle’s Tip – If you find the vibrations of a vibrator
too intense for you to start with then try tying a piece of silk or other soft
fabric in a bow around the vibrator. The vibrations will travel along the bow,
but will be dulled slightly and the softness of the fabric will make it feel
less overwhelming.
Clitoral Vibrators
These are so very much like bullet vibrators in that the primary use is for
stimulating the clitoris. And like bullets, most can be used for plenty other
external pleasure points, like nipples, inside of thighs etc. The only real
difference is that clitoral vibrators can come in a variety of different shapes
rather than the standard bullet. Clitoral vibrators tend to come a little
larger than bullets too, but they are still often very couple-friendly and
non-threatening.
Some clitoral vibes come in rather unique designs, like the Tickler brand vibrators which are shaped to help the user experience new methods of receiving pleasure
by using imagination to gain the most out of the unusual curves and contours.
Avrielle’s Tip – Vibrators are not just for female use. Why
not treat your partner to the thrills of vibrations by using a small vibrator
up against his testicles, the shaft and tip of his penis or against the
perineum (the hairless area of skin between the scrotum and the anus).
G-Spot Vibrators
The G-Spot is the most sensitive part of the vagina usually found around 1-3
inches inside on the front wall. When stimulated, the G-spot can become more
noticeable and swell or feel slightly lumpy to the touch. Many woman have found
and experimented with their G-spot, and some women are able to ejaculate or
‘squirt’, making the G-Spot one of the major ‘hot spots’ for experimentation.
G-Spot Vibrators are designed to help make the process of
finding and stimulating the sensitive tissues easier for some women. They come
in a variety of different shapes, lengths and sizes, giving women a wide
selection to find which vibrator is best for them. But they are all identifiable
by their curved tip which is designed to probe the soft tissues of the G-Spot
and provide pleasure. There is no way to say which G-Spot vibrator works the
best as every woman is different. It really is just a case of discovering what
you enjoy and which vibrator works best for you.
Avrielle’s Tip – Some G-Spot vibrators can look awkward to
someone who hasn’t used one before. Go gently when inserting it, use some
water-based lubricant to help ease it in and once the curved tip is inside you facing
forward, it should feel comfortable. Use a stroking motion by gently moving the
vibrator up and down inside you and hopefully you will soon be able to feel a
particular area becoming more responsive than the rest. That should be the
G-Spot. It can be a good idea to use your fingers to help find where your
G-Spot is located before using a toy.
Rabbit Vibrators
After its first appearance on the television series Sex and the City, the Rabbit
shook the earth as women all over the world experienced the renowned vibrator
first hand! The innovative rabbit ‘ears’ and shaft which provides dual vaginal
and clitoral stimulation make this type of vibrator stand out from all the
rest. Since the infamous Rabbit shown on Sex and the City hit our television screens, demand went through the roof and there is now a
huge variety of shapes, sizes and functions to choose from.
Many feature rotating
beads located in the shaft, which is also unique to rabbit vibrators, to help
provide G-Spot stimulation. But there are many other types out there with many
different functions, like thrusting shafts,
rippling shafts, stimulator's
for both the clitoris and the anus
or ones that simply have a variety of vibrations through both the clitoral
rabbit ears and the shaft.
Avrielle’s Tip – There are many ways to use a Rabbit
vibrator. If you want to warm yourself up before inserting the shaft of the
vibrator, then simply turn the rabbit the other way around so that the rabbit
ears are facing towards you and the shaft pointing upwards, towards your belly
button. This way you can most comfortably and easily use the clitoral
stimulator by itself. If your Rabbit shaft is the type that has rotating beads,
you can use these externally up against your clitoris or experiment on other
body parts, by holding the shaft up against you so that the stimulating ‘ears’
are facing out the other way.
Classic Vibrators
These were how most vibrators used to look. Long, thin and
smooth, they were originally marketed as massagers to reach those aches and
pains after a hard day, but women all over the world discovered a far better
use for them! Nowadays, a ‘classic’ vibrator is sold primarily for insertion to
reach those sweet spots, but there is nothing wrong with using them for
external and clitoral stimulation and are still great for using on your
shoulders.
Often made from a hard plastic, they are pretty durable and very
simple to use. Because of their versatility and easy use, ‘classic’ vibrators
make for a great first vibrator.
Avrielle’s Tip – Classic vibrators are great for beginners
and couples. You can easily introduce one through foreplay with your partner by
massaging the shoulders with it and work your way down, over erogenous zones to
help ease you both in to sex.
Vibrating Eggs
Vibrating eggs (or Love Eggs as they are sometimes known)
are rounded vibrators that are used by inserting inside the vagina, and then
controlled externally with a remote control that is connected either with a
cable or wirelessly. These are brilliantly couple-friendly, as your partner can
take full control over the vibrations of the egg. Some wireless eggs have a
good range on them, meaning that your partner could even control your orgasms
from another room!
Some people enjoy going even further by inserting a
vibrating egg, or slipping one in their underwear before going out and about
for some public thrills!
Remote controlled sex toys are also a great option for
people who sometimes have difficulty in reaching the buttons on a vibrator or
find it awkward to hold a vibrator between their legs for a while.
Avrielle’s Tip – You don’t have to just insert the vibrating
egg. You can also use it by holding it against your clitoris or even as a
massager against your shoulders.
Massager Vibrators
These vibrators are used primarily for massaging and are
often pretty good at it! They usually have a large surface area and are curved
and shaped to fit snugly in the palm of your hand while gaining the most out of
it when used against most areas of the body that need massaging - and that
quite often includes in-between the legs too! Almost all massagers are not to
be used internally, but can be used up against the clitoris and labia, giving
vibrations over a larger area than most other vibrators.
Avrielle’s Tip – Why not use a massager to give your lover a
treat by setting up the bedroom with some scented candles and dimmed lighting
for a sensual foreplay massage.
Wand Vibrators
The first wand vibrator was introduced by a well-known Japanese electronics company, originally designed as a deep penetrating massager. But very quickly women all over the world found other places the wand was great for massaging! Since 2010 however, the brand discontinued the sale of their infamous wand in the UK and Europe and a cry out for demand went up in a roar! Now there are a number of different wand vibrators available that are very similar in design and strength to the original.
Wand vibrators are easily the strongest type of vibrator
available. Even the most demanding of power queens would have a difficult
time complaining about the strength. I don’t recommend this type of vibrator for
beginners though, as the vibrations are very strong indeed and it is wiser to
try something a little less powerful to begin with until you have found what
sort of vibration power is best suited to you.
Wand vibrators are not usually suited for insertion, but
some have attachments available which can customise your wand for vaginal use.
The head usually has a large surface area making it great for massage as well
as more intimate use against the clitoris and labia.
Avrielle’s Tip – Good things come to those who wait. Start
off slowly with your wand vibrator on a comfortable setting and work your way
up gradually as your body becomes accustomed to the vibration strength. No need
to place the vibrator directly on your most intimate areas either. You could
have an old t-shirt or some soft fabric in-between you and the wand head for a
less powerful sensation. Or try warming up to the vibes by stroking it up your
inner thighs or over your labia or even the underneath of your breasts.
Well, that’s it for your guide to vibrators. Keep
experimenting and have fun!
Happy Sexing Everyone! xx
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